Breaking down polarization? Dialogue and collaboration is the answer.

Experts and policymakers discuss solutions on polarization

How do we address the growing polarization dividing communities? Last week, policymakers, academics, and social innovators gathered at the Nutshuis in The Hague to tackle this critical question during the expert meeting “From polarization to connection.” Organized by Mensen met een Missie and Utrecht University, the event explored solutions to restore trust and bridge divides.

Polarization is no longer an abstract concern. 60% of Dutch citizens are deeply worried about increasing divisions in society. Recent events in Amsterdam have shown how quickly polarizing narratives escalate. Issues like migration are used to stigmatize communities. As loud voices dominate the debate, society becomes even more divided.

Countering polarization through dialogue

“Polarization starts small but, when left unnoticed, can divide societies for years,” warned Bulama Bukarti, a Nigerian analyst specializing in social cohesion. Drawing from his experiences with the extremist group Boko Haram, Bukarti stressed how a lack of communication between communities creates a vacuum for mistrust to flourish. “Pay attention to minor changes and act in time. It’s the interaction between people that creates humanity,” he said.

The importance of inclusive decision-making was stressed by Fatimazhra Belhirch, a senator from the Dutch political party D66: “To foster real connection, policies must reflect what’s really happening in society. That requires including diverse voices in shaping solutions.”

Bulama Bukarti during the Expertmeeting

Politics and media in a divided society

From the contributions of Bea ten Tusscher (Special Envoy for Religion and Belief), Simon Polinder (researcher at Utrecht University), and the panel discussion, the importance of empathy and curiosity was emphasized, along with the influence of politics and media on a polarizing society. This latter point was underscored by Imam Shamier Madhar, who, in light of recent events in Amsterdam, highlighted the polarizing impact of politics and media. “Journalism has torn the country further apart in recent days,” stated Shamier Madhar. “By following politics rather than the facts, the media has caused damage that it now needs to repair.” He concluded with a powerful appeal to the government: “You share responsibility for what is happening today.”

From ideas to action

In a series of interactive workshops such as ‘Non-violent communication’ and ‘Interfaith Experience’, participants shared strategies and were offered tools to reduce tensions, dismantle prejudices, and foster meaningful dialogue within communities.

Rick van der Woud, director of Mensen met een Missie, captured the essence of the day: “This expert meeting proved we are not alone in the fight against polarisation. Sharing ideas across disciplines is essential to drive real change.” Polarisation may seem overwhelming, but this meeting reaffirmed the power of connection. Together, through dialogue and collaboration, we can bridge divides and rebuild trust—one conversation at a time.